Monday, 21 January 2013

Commuter Conversation- With a Syrian Refugee


Straight away this latest trip has been an eye opening experience. On the tram from the airport to my hostel I encountered an elder man from Syria. He began curiously interrogating my friend and I's home countries and why we were visiting Istanbul. He introduced himself as a Syrian and carried on normal conversation with us for the first few stops. Then he grasped our hands and apologized for doing so but he wanted to change the topic of conversation to Syria and with fiery passion in his eyes he began.

It turned out that he was an exile for over 20 years who has been traveling around Europe, learning languages and unable to return to Syria. His story then became more intense when he identified himself as formerly being very close and part of the Assad regime. It was this point that his demeanor became more aggressive and his tone changed to intense hatred for Assad and his regime for whom he once worked.

He began explaining how Assad was born into this lifestyle of wealth and not knowing of work or poverty. The current war is a result of this upbringing in that Assad will never willingly give up his wealth and power. It is this attitude that has driven the rebels, with no other option, to try to take the country back at whatever cost. It is this willingness of both sides to sacrifice life over compromise that forecasts a long struggle with no end in sight.

It was the look in his eyes, of both terror for his countries fate, and anger towards the man that has left his country in ruins that has burned its image into my mind. As we approached our tram stop he once again apologized to us for speaking of this as he returned to a civilized tone once again. As I walked off the train and away, this conversation followed. The sad reality is that mankind has not learned it's lesson of dealing with dictators past and the world will continue to look onto this war from a distance, as dreams fade and lives are lost.  

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